So… what actually happens at The Baths?
The short answer is, we want to build it with you.
While the agenda isn’t set in stone just yet (you can apply to be a part of it here), we’re building The Baths around a pretty simple idea:
you get to decide how deep you want to go
There’s no prescribed path through The Baths. And I appreciate that is a slightly ambiguous way to market an event. So here’s how I’m thinking about the experience when you actually get there.
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The Shallows
Curious, but not quite ready to dive into the deep end? Start here. The first hours at The Baths are designed to make exploring pleasure feel easy. Come listen, wander, ask questions or simply have a sticky beak.
Expect conversations like:
‘Sex-Ed You Didn’t Learn in High School’
‘Pleasure & Menopause’
‘Incognito Mode: Thoughts Googled But Never Shared’
You’ll also be able to wander through a curated Pleasure Bazaar, where you can touch products, meet the people who make them and ask the questions you actually want answered before deciding whether to buy.
You’re welcome to stay in The Shallows all day if you life. Or as evening settles in, maybe venture a bit deeper.
The Baths: Up Late
This is where the spice dial turns up.
The Baths: Up Late makes room for some of the curiosities you might be ready to explore next.
Maybe that’s learning the basics of shibari.
Maybe it’s understanding D/s dynamics beyond what you’ve seen on screen.
Maybe it’s discovering how lingerie can complement your own pleasure practice rather than simply being something worn for somebody else.
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You don't need to do everything.
In fact, we hope you don't. That sounds exhausting.
The Baths isn’t about walking out having ‘mastered pleasure’ by 10pm. It’s about having somewhere to explore it. To ask a question. Touch something unfamiliar. Hear an idea you hadn’t considered. Talk to someone you might never otherwise meet.
And perhaps leave with one little thread you want to keep pulling.
Start where you are. See what you find.